Rich: Finding inspiration in unexpected places

Out of curiosity, folks will sometimes ask who is an inspiration or hero to me.

Since I rarely think in those terms, I have to stop and think about that answer.

Without fail, I always find the ones who have inspired me most were common folks with few, if any, uncommon traits or accomplishments. Parents, teachers and others who offered a kind word, encouragement or wisdom when it was most needed are the ones who stand out most in my mind.

But now I have found a hero, and from now on whenever anyone asks that question, I will immediately reply, "Sandy Mary Thompson."

I feel fairly certain that you have never heard of Sandy Mary Thompson, for she isn't famous or renowned for anything in particular. This probably is the first time her name has appeared in the newspaper, and I know that she has never been discussed on any of television's hot topics shows, nor do bloggers pound out opinions about her.

Sandy Mary, either by the grace of God, good genetics, good decisions or a combination of all, has accomplished a life that awes me. This awe comes from a woman who has seen many incredible people and feats up close and personal. Oh, but that Sandy Mary, she's got life down pat. She's my hero.

First of all, Sandy Mary found the perfect man for her in the first and only boy she ever kissed. She was 19. They married and now 30 years later, they're still as happy as happy can be. As a side note, they're both just as handsome and pretty as they were all those years ago.

"That is absolutely amazing," I said to her. "How can that possibly happen? Some women date all their lives and never find the perfect man."

She shrugged and smiled big. "I know. It's pretty amazing. Only boyfriend I ever had and we're still in love."

OK, now that's pretty big, but here's another thing that inspires absolute d